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Monday, December 28, 2009

2010即将来到
过去的事情
已成为过去
就让他过去吧
失败 挫折 灰心 绝望
都已过去了
马太福音6:34说
所以不要为明天忧虑。因为明天自有明天的忧虑。。。

勇敢的面对新的一年 勇敢的面对每一天
面对挑战时
靠着他来得胜

Friday, December 18, 2009

谢谢你们的迁就和包容
虽然我们相处的时间不多
当中也有欢笑和泪水
不过,
我很珍惜这段时间
我们所经历的是个永远的回忆



我就是我
不管发生什么事,
一定会自己坦然地去面对..


危机=转机

Saturday, December 12, 2009

SAD

very very very up sad right now..
just now call to a very close friend and telling her all the thing,my tears flow from my eye socket....
it can show how sad i am...


nothing i can say,
only follow and obey...
because need to follow one of the relus & regulation,that was obey..

Guys,my tears come out again right now as i was writing this article..
i think back and feel that.....
Cheer up man,
only i can do is keep praying...
so,
just for u all...

God Bless

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Tears Of Repentance忏悔的泪

My husband, a self-proclaimed computer illiterate, purchased a computer to help him with his business. After giving him a few pointers, I left him alone to do some experimenting. It wasn’t long, however, before I heard a slightly panicked voice from the office: “Hey, where’s that ‘uh-oh’ button?”
What he had been looking for, of course, was the “undo” key that lets you backtrack when you’ve made a mistake. Have you ever wished for one of those in life? A provision to reverse, repair, or restore what’s been broken or damaged by sin?
After Jesus’ arrest, Peter, one of His beloved disciples, denied three times that he knew Him. Then, we read, “the Lord turned” and simply “looked at” him. Peter “went out and wept bitterly” (Luke 22:61-62). His tears were most likely tears of shame and repentance. No doubt he wished he could undo his actions. But Peter wasn’t left in his misery. After Jesus’ resurrection, He restored Peter, giving him opportunity to reaffirm his love (John 21:15-17).
When you sorrow over sin in your life, remember that God has provided a method of restoration. “If we confess our sins,” He will “forgive us” and “cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). —
Cindy Hess Kasper
We’re thankful, Lord, that when we fallWe can begin anewIf humbly we confess our sin,Then turn and follow You. —Sper
The way back to God begins with a broken heart.


我的丈夫自称对电脑一窍不通,他买了一台电脑来帮助他处理工作上的事务。我先告诉他一些基本的操作方式,便让他在办事处自行摸索。似乎他也能够应付,但不久之后,便听到他从办事处传来声音,语气略带惊慌地说:「有个『改错』的键在哪里呢?」
他所找的显然是电脑上的「复原」键,一按这键就可返回到失误前的状态。你是否也希望在生命中也有这种复原键?一个可以返回、修复和重新再来的功能,清除因犯罪所产生的破坏和伤害。
彼得是耶稣最喜爱的门徒之一,在耶稣被捕后,彼得三度不认耶稣。我们在经文中读到:然后「主转过身来看彼得」。彼得就「出去痛哭」(路加福音22章 61-62节)。他所流的一定是羞愧和忏悔的泪水。无庸置疑,彼得一定希望自己可以清除这事,重新来过。不过耶稣并没有让彼得一直陷在痛苦当中。耶稣复活 后,祂让彼得重新开始,给他有机会重新肯定自己对耶稣的爱(约翰福音21章15-17节)。
生命的旅途中,当你因罪而感到伤痛,请记住,上帝已经给我们修复的方法。「我们若认自己的罪」,祂「必要赦免我们的罪,洗净我们一切的不义」(约翰一书1章9节)。CHK
主我们满心感谢祢,跌倒时能重新得力;只须谦卑承认过错,依然能重新跟随祢。Sper
重返上帝怀抱的第一步,是一颗忧伤痛悔的心。

When i saw this message,i was very tough..
Hope that you can spend few min to read it..

Thursday, November 26, 2009

nothing is impossible^^




Hi,this few day start come back writing blog again..
ha,donno y??i like to upload photo le..haha
just came back from some event
and i found i have the "tacit agreement"with PLT B EX Sq Leader.
How to said this,
just now we wish to go makan at eight star
& a big big sun at the sky,
and this moment...
suddently...
ALL
open bag and take out the payung..
WOW~look good right??
haha^^
moment for memory..
but when after eating....
kenal,
qiao zha++

cute??nice??






my family..

joe & cassy
fresh & white^^




KOH's family photo,
huat,alice,jona,benson,j3,j1,callie,MARY,Pik,agnes,julie & j2^^



smart??




Saturday, November 7, 2009

Thanks Giving^^

Thanks God for provided everything!!
feel
PEACE
JOY^^

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Seeds And Faith

I read a fable about a man who was browsing in a store when he made the shocking discovery that God was behind a sales counter. So the man walked over and asked, “What are You selling?” God replied, “What does your heart desire?” The man said, “I want happiness, peace of mind, and freedom from fear . . . for me and the whole world.” God smiled and said, “I don’t sell fruit here. Only seeds.”
In Galatians 6, Paul stressed the importance of sowing seeds of God-honoring behavior, for “whatever a man sows, that he will also reap” (v.7). We can’t expect to experience the fruit of God’s blessings if we don’t recognize the importance of doing our part.
It helps to follow the example of others who have sown good seed. Author Samuel Shoemaker said that a good example can either inspire us or cause us to say, “Oh yes, he (or she) is like that. He is not troubled by temper or nerves or impatience or worry as I am; he is just a happier temperament.” Shoemaker continued, “It may not occur to us that perhaps he had to fight for his serenity, and that we might win if we would do the same.”
Are you weary of the way you are? Ask God for His help and begin sowing seeds of new actions and responses today. In due season the Spirit will give the increase. —
Joanie Yoder
We’re always sowing seeds in lifeBy everything we do and say,So let’s make sure the fruit we reapComes from the good we do each day. —Hess
The seeds we sow today determine the kind of fruit we’ll reap tomorrow


「人种的是什么,收的也是什么。」 (加拉太书6章7节)
全年读经:
耶利米书32-33章 希伯来书1章
我曾读过一篇寓言故事,说到有个人走进一家商店,十分吃惊地发现,站在柜台的竟是上帝。所以这个人近前问道:「您在卖什么呢?」上帝回答说:「你想要什么呢?」这人说:「我想要让自己和世界都得到幸福、平安,免于恐惧。」上帝微笑回答说:「我这里没有果实,只有种子。」
在加拉太书6章中,保罗强调我们应当栽种荣耀上帝的行为种子,因为「人种的是什么,收的也是什么」(7节)。如果我们不知道做好自己本分的重要性,我们就不能期望可以得到上帝赐福的果实。
依循别人的好榜样,也是一种不错的方式。作家修梅克(Samuel Shoemaker)说,好榜样会激发我们思考,然而我们也可能会说:「对啊,他(她)就是这样。他不会像我会被情绪、紧张、不耐烦及忧虑所困扰,他天生 就是好脾气。」修梅克再说:「我们却从没想过,他需要为自己的好心情努力,也没思考过,如果我们也这样做,就能跟他一样。」
你是否对你自己感到厌倦呢?求上帝帮助你,在生命中撒下有意义的种子,使你有新的生命。时候到了,圣灵就会使它开花结果。JEY
我们每日所言所行,都是在为生命播种;要确保所收的果实,是产自善行的种子。Hess
种瓜得瓜,种豆得豆。

Helped By Fear

Fear means different things to different people. To professional golfer Padraig Harrington, it is a motivator to help him perform his very best. In 2008, when he won both the British Open and the PGA Championship, Harrington said, “Yes, fear is a big part of me. I’d like to say that I have all the trust and patience and I’m relaxed. No, that’s not my makeup. [Fear] pushes me on. Keeps me getting to the gym. I have to work with it and use it.”
Maybe it’s the fear of failure, or the fear of losing his edge, but Harrington finds fear to be a useful thing in his professional life.
The follower of Christ can also be helped by fear. We are challenged in the Scriptures to a reverential fear of God, which is the best type of fear that there is. It causes us to be concerned about disobeying Him or living in opposition to His ways. It’s being in awe of our great God, bowing to His perfect will, and seeking His wisdom for living. To that end, the proverb declares, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding” (Prov. 9:10).
By fearing God rightly, we can live wisely in an uncertain world. —
Bill Crowder
God dwells in light and holiness,In splendor and in might;And godly fear of His great powerCan help us do what’s right. —D. De Haan
Fear God, and you’ll have nothing else to fear.


「敬畏耶和华是智慧的开端,认识至圣者便是聪明!」 (箴言9章10节)
全年读经:
耶利米书30-31章 腓利门书
畏惧对不同的人产生的影响不尽相同。对职业高尔夫球员派洛·哈灵顿(Padraig Harrington)而言,畏惧是促使他得以完美的动力。2008年当他赢得英国公开赛及PGA冠军赛后,哈灵顿这么说:「没错,恐惧对我的影响很大。 我很希望我能说,我有足够的信心和耐力,我很轻松,但事实并非如此,『恐惧』促使我前进;它让我能规律地上健身房。我必须面对恐惧,并将它转化为积极的力 量。」
也许是害怕失败或失去优势,哈灵顿却因此发现,恐惧对他的职业生涯有着极大的帮助。
基督的跟随者也能因着畏惧而得到益处。在圣经中要求我们要敬畏上帝,这是最有益的恐惧。这会使我们对不顺从上帝,或去做违反上帝旨意的事而感到担心,使我 们对伟大的上帝深怀敬畏,对祂的完美旨意全然信服,并在生活中寻求祂的智慧。这也就是箴言所说:「敬畏耶和华是智慧的开端,认识至圣者便是聪明!」(箴言 9章10节)
谨守着敬畏上帝的心,我们便得以在这个充满不确定性的世代中有智慧地活着。WEC
上帝居光明圣所,充满了荣耀力量;敬畏全能的上帝,助我行事于正途。D. De Haan
敬畏上帝,便心无所惧。

Sunday, November 1, 2009

to my dearly sister

i not very sure what going on within u & me but i'm sure that u unhappy is because of my,
only think i can say is sorry,
very sorry to u,
pls forgive & forget.
thx



sincerely
goh goh
jeremy

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

我们的友谊‏

给亲爱的你,

谢谢你曾经陪伴着我..~
谢谢你做我的朋友..^^
谢谢你让我的回忆更美满..
希望我们以后还能继续联络哦..
记得永远都不要忘记我哦....


以前,我们曾经一起吵架过..
以前,我们曾经一起闹纠纷过...以前,我们曾经一起笑过...以前,我们曾经一起分享过..
以前,我们曾经一起被罚过..以前,我们曾经一起游戏过..以前,我们曾经一起嬉戏过.. 以前,我 们曾经一起读书过.. 以前,我们曾经一起活动过..
以前,我们曾经一起发神经过..
以前,我们曾经一起翘课过...
以前,我们曾经一起唱歌过..
以前,我们曾经一起表演过..
以前,我们曾经一起用餐过..以前,我们曾经一起忙碌过...
以前,我们曾经一起做弊过..
以前,我们曾经互相挺立对方过..
以前,我们曾经互相包容过.. 许许多多的以前,许许多多的回忆..
如今将挂上一个美丽的句号...
这些回忆让我们的童年添加了色彩..
让我们都经过快乐,悲伤,忧虑,害怕...
期盼着要到的将来,
等待着要到的未来..
大家的友情,
永远都没有句号,
大家的友情,
永远都没有污点..
把每一份真诚的友谊,
都藏在心中..




你是我的朋友,我希望你知道这个是真的..
无论发生什么事,我都会站在你这里;
当你需要我的时候,我一定会出现,
给你援手,助你一臂..
有需要的时候尽管来找我..
不因为为什么,
只因为我们是朋友..
虽然我们毕业了,分离了.
不希望你忘掉我..
不希望你憎恨我..
只希望你记住我~
一定要记住哦!
希望我们友谊万岁~
有缘的话,咱们一定会再相遇..
相信我!我们一定会再相遇的~

Sunday, October 25, 2009

day with my brother joe

my brother had come back from KK with his girlfriend
they camne back for daddy & mummy Jubilee Anniversary
so i hav more time wit them
i think our relationship wil build up faster,haha^^
just go cutting hair 2gether,go terbau jusco
and playball 2day,
j team are very 'zhun' xia,haha
but face somebody donno how 2 playball and look 4 fight wit us..
1st time,
there is 1st time i feel tat i in the same boat wit he,
feel good^^

Friday, October 16, 2009

人的嘴巴=无言

还以为学乖乖学好了就没事了
不过
事实并非如此
以前是因为人在高处而惹是非
现在则是PR好而惹是非


有些人生来嘴巴就是如此的XX
一分钟没说话就好象要了她的命
我没说说话不好
只是有时说多了废话弄到POLLUTION
而当不满或不爽时,又不敢当面说
Haiz!!!


我写这篇文章
只是想表明些立场
我不是什么厉害的人
我也不是什么名人
我只是想认识多些朋友
开开心心的读书
一起闹闹

可是
请别来找我麻烦
如果你觉得做了我朋友会很没有面子
或是做了我朋友会被诅咒
再来做了我朋友而永远不被人尊重

那请你来告诉我一声
Jeremy
我做了你朋友很丢脸

我会知道该如何做的
我是真心诚意的想跟每一个人做朋友
如果有伤害到你的地方
Jeremy在此说声对不起
Pls Forgive And Forget




也给那些很有‘自信’的人
你应该要感谢主你遇到的是现在的我。。
给你们些爱心的劝告
1 当你要去批评他人之前,想想自己
2 当你要如何对待他人之前,想想你希望怎么被对待
3 当你要去下定论事,请先观察先



当你说话不经过大脑时,
请记得
你所说的每局话都有可能伤害到他人。。


结论
不管遇到什么事,
我就是我
Jeremy会还是Jeremy

有什么需要,
请别害羞的开口说出来

不满时,
也请用温柔的语气来告诉我

不对时,
请用温柔的态度来教导我

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

no correct answer de question^^

1. Who is more important to you? Friends or girlfriend?
-I think friend is most important than GF o^^
2.where will you go if someone sponsors you a tour ticket?
-if really, I wish 2 look around whole world^^
3.what's your favourite thing to do?
-sms, chating, joking and acting^^
4. who is the person you trust most?-Jesus
5.if you were given one dream to come true, what would it be?
-all started again
6. do you want to be handsome?
-depend on the situation
7.what is your favourite line?-what is mean by ‘line’?
8.if you win $1 million, what would you do?
-wait until the time come only I will know
9.is there anything that you did and regretted now?
-yup
10.are you lame?
-depend on the situation
11.what makes you happy?
-be with friend&family
12.what do you think is the most important thing in your life?
-family
13.where do you see yourself 10 years down the road?
-depend on the situation
14.if you could a superpower, what would it be?
-play 4 peace
15.what have you done to please yourself?
-depend on the situation
16.what do you do when you're alone?
-sms
17.if you have a chance, which part of your character would you like to change?
-I wish 2 be myself bcoz I’m jeremy
18.what do you think is the most important in a relationship?
-trust,understanding..
19.what was the most unforgettable experience in school?
-when I had the fame
20.if time were to rewind,when you want it to be?
-when I was born

Think
WWJD?

Friday, September 25, 2009

sorry,friend...

i just turn back from my primary sch gathering.
And i feel happy coz still can meet so many ppl.
Friend,i miss u all so much,really..
but i saw everybody still caring n loving each other i feel proud off u all.
u all r very good in everything.
But I sorry 2 say..
Guys I am sorry 2 u all..
i can make u all laugh make u guys hav fun But I cant help u all in spiritual..
Hope tat u all can forgive n forget me..
When I leaves u all n go 2 another stratum..
Hope tat can c u all r grow in spiritual way..
Love others like GOD love us,
Care others like GOD care us,
N say something can motivate others..
And STOP wat u feel is wrong de.
Kneel n make a pray with ur wholehearted..
Ask GOD 2 forgive n forget ur sin..
And believe with him..
Go with him..
He will make a way 4 u..
It u determined want 2 let this mighty GOD live in u..
Open ur heart n let he live inside..'
U can make a prayer like this..
“Mighty GOD, I need u. I willing open my heart accepts JESUS to become my savior. Thank you Lord JESUS remits my sin. Please take care of all one’s life, let me become the person who r joyous in u. In JESUS name I pray, amen.”神啊,我需要你.我愿意打开心门接受耶稣作我的救主和生命的主.感谢你赦免我的罪.求你管理我的一生, 使我成为你所喜悦的人.奉主耶稣的名祷告, 阿门.
你还在等什么呢?
祷告接受他吧!
他真的能够帮助你..
朋友..
就相信我一次,好吗?

Sunday, September 20, 2009

^^

after reading something
and after thinking

i return back and start asking myself
izit really need?
o izzit really want?


after somedays observe and finally
i get the answer

ppl r always busybody wit others thinking
n non stop talking


hope tat i would no b the 1 i said^^

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Special Thanks!!






















A Special Thanks to:

Mr Richard Koh

Mdm Agnes Ku

Mr Joseph Koh
Ms KC

Ms Jessalynn Koh


Actually i don wan 2 write blog before i write my personal details

but

sometime need to change the plan follow the New information had been given.

So i write le.

Why i would like to thanks the person above??

is because they give me a specials present give which is a

Original Adidas Shoe.

Wow,

Cool...

haha^^


i will show u the picture Above le.

be4 tat i always think tat my more expensive shoe i wear is BB boot but..

thanks God..

&

once again thanks my family members,

thanks 4 treat me so nice^^

Monday, September 7, 2009

silent is good^^

sometime,i found tat silent is better than bising.
when u talk more u will wrong more n others will hate o dislike u more.
but
when u silent
others will hope tat u talk but....


so,silent are always better then bising....
really

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

ANTC 2009^^







Goal Setting

“Smart A”

Specific
Measurable
Achievable
Time
Agreed


Problem Solving

5w1h

Six step model

Gathering good info,
Getting to the root of the problem,
Raising the options,
Choosing the best solution,
Getting it solved

Ethical Decision Making
Value, Principles, Ethical Rules
Beliefs, Values, Action
Power responsible
Character knows the good,
Loving the good and Doing the good

7 paths to do the better decision


Stop and think,
Clarify goals,
Determine facts,
Develop options,
Consider consequence,
Choose,
Monitor & modify

Six Pillars of Character


Trustworthiness,
Respect,
Responsibility,
Fairness,
Caring,
Citizenship

Conflict Management


People,
Process,
Problem

Level of conflict

Discomforts,
Incidents,
Misunderstanding,
Tension,
Crisis

Values-Centered Leadership

'Who’ is more important than 'what'










Saturday, August 8, 2009

good evening every1,
a very long time din on9 n update le.
abit sorry because so of the problem^^
minta maaf ya^^

recently,
i was study at KTC.
the course i study are accounting.

last monday i started get sick n been recover.......


finally,the main point 4 to day..
haha^^

sorry la,
talk nonsense.....


今天嘛
我回去了我的子校
我见到了好多陌生的脸孔
我也遇到了好多学弟学妹
可是
他们很像都不认识了
也许太久没找他们吧!!


看到了她
知道她还过得很好
那就够了

美好的一天

touch^^

A Story to live by
There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind.. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.
'有一位瞎女很討厭自己因為眼睛瞎了。她也討厭每個人,唯一不討厭的是她的男朋友,因為他都常守在她身旁。於是她對她的男朋友說:「如果能讓我看到這個世界,我愿意嫁給你!」
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.
有一天,有人捐了一對眼精給她。當紗布解開時,她能夠看到一切,包括她的男朋友。
He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.
男朋友問她:「現在你可以看到這世界,你愿意嫁給我嗎?」那女孩看了男朋友是個瞎子,他那對蓋上眼皮的眼睛嚇到了她,這是她無法想像。她想:要我嫁給他而一生對着他這個樣子,我無法接受。
Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'
於是,她的男朋友很傷心的離開她,幾天後寫了字條給她:「親愛的,請你好好照顧你的眼睛,因為它不是屬於你的之前,它是屬於我的。」
This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.
這也是人的腦會如何做當情況有所變動。只有少許人會記得他或她之前的生活及誰會在身旁當他或她處在困境的時候
Life Is a Gift
生命是一份禮物
Todaybefore you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak.今天,當你要講一句不善之言--請想想那些無法講話的人
Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.
當你要埋怨食物的味道時--請想想那些沒有食物吃的人
Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion..
當你要埋怨你的先生或太太時--請想想那些在向上天哭訴要一個伴侶的人Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who died too early on this earth.
今天,當你要埋怨生活時--請想想那些太早離開人世間的人
Before you complain about your children - Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.
當你要埋怨小孩時--請想想那些渴望小孩而無能生育的人
Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.
當你要爭論沒有人清理屋子時--請想想那些住在街邊的人
Before whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.
當你在哀訴駕駛的路程--請想想那些同樣的路程以代步的人
And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job..
當你很疲備而埋怨工作時--請想想那些無工作,殘疾的,及那些多麼希望擁有你這份工作的人
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us is without sin.
當你想要指著人或互相譴責時--請記得沒有一個人是無罪
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and think: you're alive and still around.
當壓抑的念頭讓你無法振作時--請你笑一笑想想:你還活著存在世間!============ ========= =====
I PRAY THIS MOVES AROUNDTHE ENTIRE UNIVERSE....
我祈禱這訊息能夠繼續傳至全人類............ ..

Friday, July 24, 2009

没有永远对的价值观~‏

朋友手拿一份報紙,說讓我做一個小小的測驗,我欣然同意了。

問題一:如果你知道有一個女人懷孕了,她已經生了八個小孩,其中有三個耳朵聾、兩個眼睛瞎、一個智能不足,

而這女人自己又有梅毒,請問,你會建議她墮胎嗎?

我剛要回答,朋友制止了我,又問我第二個問題。

問題二:現在要選舉一名領袖,而你這一票很關鍵。

下面是關於這三位候選人的一些事實:

候選人A:
跟一些不誠實的政客有往來,而且會咨詢占星學家。他有婚外情,是一個老煙槍,每天喝8─10杯的馬丁尼。

候選人B:

他過去有兩次被解雇的記錄,睡覺睡到中午才起來,大學時吸過鴉片,而且每天傍晚會喝一夸特的威士忌。

候選人C:
他是一位受勛的戰爭英雄,素食主義者,不抽煙,只偶爾喝一點啤酒。從沒有發生過婚外情。

請問你會在這些候選人中選哪一個?
朋友讓我把答案寫在紙上,然後告訴我說:

候選人A是:富蘭克林•羅斯福,
候選人B是:溫斯頓•邱吉爾,
候選人C是:亞道夫•希特勒。

我聽了答案驚訝地張大了嘴巴。朋友表情凝重地問我:
你是不是為世界人民選擇了希特勒?那你會建議這位婦女墮胎嗎?

我說:這個問題不用考慮,我們受計劃生育優生優育教育多年了,都生那麼多歪瓜劣棗了,就別再添亂了。當然墮胎啊。

朋友說:你殺了貝多芬,她是貝多芬的母親。
我又一次吃驚地張大了嘴巴。
朋友說:嚇一跳吧?本來你認為很好很人道主義的答案,結果卻扼殺了貝多芬、創造了希特勒?

最後朋友總結道:所以不要用既定的價值觀來思考事物。

我抓過朋友手中的報紙,原來真是一個測驗題,題目是《你的決定滅了誰》。
重要的是,不是我們在哪,而是我們要往哪走......
如果你知道往哪走,并且相信自己,世界會為你開出一條路.......




如果覺得好的話,就發吧~
讓更多人知道....
人的一切一切未必在掌控之中~
人是個難以捉摸的東西,就連自己也是一樣~

發吧~
好東西要讓全部人知道,不要自私~

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

when i read it,my tears drop down~

在美國的加州有一個小女孩大約是4 歲
她的父親有一台大卡車,她的父親非常喜歡那台卡車
總是為那台車做全套的保養,以保持卡車的美觀


一天,小女孩拿著硬物在他父親的卡車鈑金上劃下了無數的刮痕 !!
她的父親盛怒之下,用鐵絲把小女孩的手綁起來
然後吊著小女孩的手,讓她站在車庫罰站


當父親想起小女兒在車庫罰站時,已經是 4個小時過後了!
趕到車庫時,小女孩的手已經被鐵絲綁的血液不通!
父親送她到急診室時,已經需要截去小女孩的手掌了
因為,手掌部分的組織已經都壞死,如不截去手掌 ...
她生命是非常危險,甚至可能會危害到小女孩的生命 ...
所以小女孩就這樣失去了她的一雙手掌了 !


但是她不懂 .....她不懂到底是發生了什麼事在她的身上 ....
而她的父親也因為這樣感到萬分的愧疚 !
過了約半年後
小女孩的父親的卡車進廠重新烤漆,又像全新的一樣!!
當他把卡車開回家後,小女孩看著重新烤漆過的卡車
對著她的父親說
{{Daddy~your truck looking so pretty,same like new truck.}}
<<爸爸! 你的卡車好漂亮唷!看起來就像是新卡車>>


這時小女孩無邪的伸出了她那截斷的雙手,對她的父親說
{{but, when you want put my hand back to me??}}
<<但是你什麼時候要把我的手還給我?? >>


你們知道當那位父親聽到小女孩問他的問題時,發生了什麼事嗎 ?
那位父親在小女孩的面前 ..... 舉槍自殺......
很多人分不清 .....到底什麼是重要的?
只會無知迷失在自我的喜好當中 ........


就如有些人會去 慈濟幫忙掃街,但家事從來不管.......


有些人會花很多錢去建廟,但對自己的親人如鐵公雞.....

有些人在外面和言悅色,但對自己的卻家人暴躁如雷 ......

這就是說那個父親不知是車子重要,或是女兒重要呢?

更有些人喜欢做大家都能做的事,

而却对目前最重要的事处之不理,

而遺憾的事.....世間到處充滿了這些事 .....

而且就在你我之間....


只要是金錢可以買到的;
都比不上無價的可貴,
請不要吝嗇,多給家人一點愛!更别忘了是神给你机会去参与在他的大使命里头,做你目前最需要做的事吧!

珍惜眼前的一切,别等到失去了才后悔


后记

人往往都要等到失去了才会珍惜
我的意思不是说爱情的珍惜
而是亲情

爱情这东西太哲学化了
要深入去体会才会体验到的奥秘

可是亲情是一出身就有的
可以很简单,也可以很复杂。。
但我相信简单就是美

珍惜你身边的人
别等到失去了才后悔

切记
要跟他们分享福音
这才是最重要的
我想你们也不希望自己认识的人走了还要受苦吧??

安静自己
好好的想吧?
什么才是最重要的。。

愿你们平安^^

Saturday, July 11, 2009

1 week time==

just now hear the announce tat next week will b combine parade because the hong kong bb will visit us.
if no wrong...
need 2 wear full u because is the coy parade...

means........


i need 2 slim down within this week..



y??


good question^^

because after i resign as a teacher i become bigger n bigger..
uniform cant wear le..

so,
only 1 week....


haiz

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

wow!!

yest i started my life journey again which is study
KTC-Accounting...

wat means KTC??
KTC=IPTS lo!

tat is 1st time i go 2 school without school uniform..
ha,
the class started at 9.30am
but
when i 1st day go,
traffic jam
lao sai
payment...
so i go into the class at 10am..
hahahaha,
the teacher n classmate quite gud,
the teacher always ask "u know wat i talking??"
ha...



2day,
2nd day only
i ponteng the class le..
yyyyy???
because i go SSI 4 my SPM lisan test..
early in the morning i went there,
meet alot of friend..
then i lao sai again...
haiz...ha

individu i get 25/40
but grouping 1 i donno....

finally
i finish my retest le
quite happy la..
hope the result also good la!!

now i can concentrate in my study le.
my schedule for my class

monday 0930-1230

tuesday 0930-1230

wed 0930-1230
1330-1630

friday 0930-1130
1330-1630

pls pray 4 me!!
my fizikal
mentally
concentration..

thx




















2 my best friend ian,
i know u had GF le..
take good care la..
don chance again n again..
n help me guide her well^^
although...............

Saturday, July 4, 2009

A memory day..

my classmate wit my donno wat teacher^^



my classmate wit the lang n niang^^




my girlfriend^^wahahaha...





looks goood rite? sure lah^^






i just attent my best friend in my primary sch same class 4 donno how how many year "yin xin"s wedding!!


wow,i only 19 years old,she same age wit me o^^


BUT,pls don b surprise....



because,







she was third person in my class who is wedding le..



2day really had a enjoy time which my classmate..

Although we din c how many years but we still can chat like we r very very familiar..tat's good..

only 10 of us get 2 meet 2gether..


but how abt the others??

friend from sjk(c) pusze 6J/o2 de..

we miss u all so much..

pls contact us..

really...



n i really thanks her so much
if she not invited me

i don have the chance 2 know another beauty..



haha,



thx ya xin....



remember giv me her contact o..



beauty rite??


when she sit down 2gether wit us..

my face suddently turn 2 red colour..
when saw her smile..
wow,like angle^^

hai xiu...^^

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

feel go0d!!

2day i hav the chance go back 2 my company"kk"
feel g0od..

haha^^
y?because i saw my old friend
student
friend.....


haha^^^^

Monday, June 29, 2009

R3v3ng3....

when u c tis title,
u may thinking why i put tis"revenge"..

is bcoz some1 offend me??



haha^^

sure no la..
i treat others so nice...
wahaha



then why i put revenge??


is because when i was young,
i always play around n did not study well..
i treat teacher like friend n din respect them also..
i always tot i was very important in the position..
i think tat CCA is important tat study
so,
i was not study well at all n always fail the sub...


BUT,when i become a temporary teacher..
i found tat study is very important 2 every1
even though it's hard but we nid it 4 our futher..

really,....

i started regret but is 2 late 4 me..
i cant get into the form6.

but GOD is so good 2 me..
HE prepare another way 2 me..
tat is ACCA-CAT at KCT..

i know there will be some problem 2 me coz i don hav any simple foundation on it but i will really study hard...
i will revenge on tatt..


i spend daddy's hard $ 2 study..
i will do it perfect..

dad,THX...

Friday, June 26, 2009

ScAre..

after i had pass my UNDANG abt two week only,

i go though my 1st test in driving tat is PRE-TEST.

wow,had alarmingly dangerous in tis test...

if deduct >20 mark i will fail the test n luckily the officer is sooooooooooo good,only deduct me 17 mark..haha
the mark had be deduct is because
1)tidak berpakaian sesuai-3
(actually i donno todat i hav 2 test so i ...............simply wear)
2)tidak melihat cermin pandangan sisi-2
(tis wan i really angry,i had look wit my canthus but......)
3)tidak memberi isyarat secukupnya sebelum menukar lorong/belok-3
(the uncle said no nid than i din do but........)
4)gagal melihat cermin pandangan belakang setiap 5-10saat-2
(again i explain,i had look wit my canthus but............)
5)gagal menoleh ke belakang semasa memasuki aliran trafik(blindspot)-2
(tis wan i cant say anything coz i donno wat is tis)
6)kemahiran pemandu kurang memuaskan
(the car differ mah,wat he except o!!!)

haiz,because of this few point...
i had been scold by my teacher

but it's ok..
he so good 2 me..
n the Examiner also very gooood o^^
when i do the meletak kenderaan secara masuk belok
actually i quite good in the wan but i 'gan jiong"
i dinnot adjust the dressing nice,
when i do the part 4 which is nid 2 parking le
i terlanggar the tiang penanda but only abit la so...

haha,
u know la^^

if not be anything happen,
erm...
mayb 15 july is my JPJ driving test o...

pray 4 me.....
really

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

放松一下,生活中18件傻傻的事情,你做过几件?
1、用手插入米缸的米里面插来插去/玩来玩去

2、地下有阶砖时,特意隔一格一格来走(不可走过界,要完全在格内)
3、用镜面等反光物品反射阳光,照来照去
4、铺张纸在硬币上面,然后用铅笔在上面描,描个形出来
5、吃完瑞士糖(Sugus)之后,将糖纸包回原本四四方方的形状出来
6、超级市场踩着购物车行走
7、贴张写着“我是白痴”等等的纸条在同学的背后
8、拍别人左边 站在别人右边
9、踩别人的影子
10、丢别人门口的拖鞋下楼
11、下楼梯时坐在扶手上面滑下来
12、在电梯(Escalator)上往相反方向走
13、用萤光笔(Highlighter)油指甲
14、下雨用伞,总是故意地转那把伞
15、对着镜子学跳舞/演戏/唱歌
16、在街上见到狗就扮猫叫,见到猫就扮狗吠
17、下雨的时候,拿起伞故意往雨大的地方走去 听雨啪啪的声音 感觉很爽
18、玩家电包装里的那张有很多泡泡的塑料膜,把泡泡一个一个按破



看完了这边文章,肯听让你笑着对自己讲当年有多傻。哈哈

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

奇怪!!

奇怪奇怪真奇怪!!


不懂国家的公司有不同的工作方式这很正常吧!!
就像马来西亚的麦当劳和新加坡,香港或台湾的味道也不一样吧!!


让我奇怪的是,马来西亚里的同一个公司也有不同的工作方式哦!!
刚去看了一位朋友的部落
发现到虽然是同个公司工作
同个上司
同个领导人
为什么??
为什么就是不一样啊??


不明白不明白
怎么可以那么随便呢??


想不通想不通啦!!
人家努力的搞好
你们又酱!!!


不懂啦不懂啦!!














^^
看不明白没关系哦!!
哈哈,
求主给我智慧,
让我能明白!!

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Singapore trip..

3days 1 night Sing EXchange..
erm,
it's was
fun
hard
tired
strong
crazy
shock
haha
why i said tat,
be4 i go,
i think will be a relax camp 4 me since be4 SPM i edi start 2 busy until 29may...
but
the briefing..........................long
time......................................short
members.............................slow
time at bus..........................looong
morning exercise...............never had be4
tired.....................................ok lo
bottom................................pain
cycling................................2+km
pumping.............................cant count it
sleep...................................cool
place..................................clean
weather............................hot
ppl.....................................friendly
overall..
good experience..
thx 4 taking care...
will miss u guys...

Monday, June 8, 2009

dua two 2 二

hari ini,
8-6-2009
saya dapat belajar dua benda yang baru..
ilmu pertama,
hari ini saya dapat ilmu yang saya dunggu lama
KURIKULUM PEMDIDIKAN PEMANDU..
kedua,
hari ini kali pertama saya masuk tempat untuk nyangi..
wa,
satu hari sudah habis le..


dua minggu akan datang,
saya akan ambil kertas ULANGAN
maksud ULANGAN iaitu kali kedua..


tolong doakan saya ada ilmu yang TUHAN kasih untuk belajar,
saya pelajar berlajar sendiri..
saya takut gagal lagi..
betul,
betul saya takut...

saya hanya nak satu C sahaja..
begitu senang.....

Thursday, June 4, 2009

H0LidAy..

just resign from KUO KUANG as a teacher
so now,
i'm so freeeeee...
HOLIDAY just started,
i already attent 2 camp.
1st,
drill training course at SMKTTA for 3days2night
tat was a crazy camp i attent be4
the 'beauty' like me so much,
kiss me from 1st day until the end.
haha
but i like the spirit from the members,
they come 4 learning,
really..
so glad 2 c tat..
thanks GOD,
hope them can continue do their BEST in the coming practise
so tat us can move forward to "one team,one goal"
2nd,
i attent MCCC staff retreat with my family,

it was a makan retreat also.
breakfast
tea break
lunch
high tea
dinner
supper
so,
no need i say u will know la,
i became fat fat le..
hehe

following
i will go for sat parade as usual
then monday iwill go 4 the undang
then study BM,gai gai,lepak..

lastly on 121314
i will go for the exchange program
at singapore..


to b continue...

Friday, May 29, 2009

最终=结束?

哇!!

才一月完啊??

新年了。。

才三月假期!!!

。。。











短短的五个月就酱过去了!!

今天,是我在国光的最后一天

2009年最后一天以合法老师的身份

在国光里做该做的东西



5月29日

会做了什么呢???









今天是学校的运动会

所以对我在学校来说算是个完美的结局吧!!

哈哈

今天我也拿了两个奖牌

一 拔河

二 4*100 米

这是我人生的第一次接力哦!!

跑的还不赖嘛!!

哈哈

我是第一棒

在第一棒中跑了第一勒!!

哈哈哈哈

不过。。。

所以最后就第三了!

还有女童军。。

哈哈

步操第一

K头和我都有一点点功劳啦!

哈哈









最近的我比较享受过程多过成绩











还有嘛

我知道老师的辛苦(不能在欺负老师了!)

我知道要怎么去寻找学生的心

(事情是酱的,一开始就跟学生谈不来,

慢慢的菜和学生打成一片)

还有

就在那学到很多很多东西啦!!

现在的心情很不舍得,

写不下去。。

不好意思!!





最后,

我要谢谢

李校长给我这个机会

张和刘副校长的爱心教导

钟副校长的宽容及容忍

再来就是

玉娥姐
Kelly姐
婉婷姐
慧佳姐
丽萍姐
汇雯姐
美玲姐
燕燕姐
英名姐
小乖乖
还有有帮助过我开导过我给与我鼓励
容忍我原谅我的老师(太多了写不完)
(上面的只是代表)
真的谢谢你们,
要不是你们
就不会有现在的我了!!
有机会的话,
我希望我们还能是同事是朋友哦!!


学生们
要好好读书了
不然会后悔莫及的!!
球员们,
打球不忘读书哦!!
女儿,
UPSR时一定买MCD给你!!
加油!!

共之勉!!



Wednesday, May 20, 2009

新发现!!

刚我不小心去看了一个学生的网页!!
对她有了新的看法新的认识
原来人真的不能只是单看表面的
外表看起来很懂事很坚强的她
原来
那只是表面罢了!!
我错了
她只不过是一个十二岁的小女生罢了!!
我怎么会对她有酱大的期望啊!!
她也有很感性的一面的
她也会怕
也会无助
也需要人关心
也需要人爱的!!

对不起

你已经很棒了!!
别给自己酱大的压力啦!!
现在先把考试考好来!!
球还是有机会打的哦!!
最重要的,
每天要开开心心啦!!

张队长
加油

Monday, May 4, 2009

爱~

爱的感觉,
总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜,
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担,
你终於不再孤单了,
少有一个人想著你、恋著你,
不论做什么事情,
只要能一起,
就是好的,
但是慢慢的,
随著彼此的认识愈深,
你开始发现了对方的缺点,
於是问题一个接著一个发生,
你开始烦、累,
至想要逃避,
有人说爱情就像在捡石头,
总想捡到一个适合自己的,
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?


*她适合你,那你又适合她吗? 其实,爱情就像磨石子一样, 或许刚捡到的时候,你不是那么的满意, 但是记住人是有弹性的, 很多事情是可以改变的, 只要你有心、有勇气, 与其到处去捡未知的石头, 还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨,你开始磨了吗? 很多人以为是因为感情淡了, 所以人才会变得懒惰。 错! 其实是人先被惰性征服, 所以感情才会变淡的。


*在某个聚餐的场合, 有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好, 这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前,当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候,她说要吃十只虾,我就剥二十只给她! 现在,如果她要我帮她剥虾壳,开玩笑!我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了,还剥虾壳咧!



*听到了吗?明白了吗? 难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱,却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。 因为,婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。 如果每个人都 懒得讲话、 懒得倾听、 懒得制造惊喜、 懒得温柔体贴, 那么夫妻或是情人之间, 又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢? 所以请记住: 有活力的爱情, 是需要适度殷勤灌溉的, 谈恋爱,更是不可以偷懒的喔!


*有一对情侣,相约下班後去用餐、逛街,可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了, 当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟, 他的男朋友很不高兴的说: 你每次都这样,现在我甚么心情也没了, 我以後再也不会等你了! 刹那间,女孩终於决堤崩溃了, 她心里在想:或许,他们再也没有未来了


*同样的在同一个地点,另一对情侣也面临同样的处境; 女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头,他的男朋友说:我想你一定忙坏了吧! 接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水,并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上, 此刻,女孩流泪了, 但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。
你体会到了吗?


*其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间!
爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时, 很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了! 懂了吗? 当有个人爱上你,而你也觉得他不错。 那并不代表你会选择他。


*我们总说:我要找一个你很爱很爱的人,才会谈恋爱。 但是当对方问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候, 你可能无法回答他,因为你自己也不知道。
*没错,我们总是以为,我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。 可是後来,当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。 假如从来没有开始,你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢? 其实,很爱很爱的感觉,是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。 或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣, 但是你有没有想过在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了,只是你没发 觉而已呢? 所以,还是仔细看看身边的人吧! 他或许已经等你很久喽!


*当你爱一个人的时候,爱到八分绝对刚刚好。 所有的期待和希望都只有七八分;剩下两三分用来爱自己。如果你还继续爱得更多,很可能会给对方沉重的压力,让彼此喘不过气来, 完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。


*所以请记住, 喝酒不要超过六分醉, 吃饭不要超过七分饱, 爱一个人不要超过八分


那天朋友问我:到底该怎么做才算是爱一个人呢? 我笑著跟他说:其实每个人的爱情观都不一样,说对了叫开导,但就怕说错反倒变成误导。那就糟糕了!


*如果你也正在为爱迷惘,或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示: 爱一个人,要了解,也要开解; 要道歉,也要道谢; 要认错,也要改错; 要体贴,也要体谅; 是接受,而不是忍受; 是宽容,而不是纵容; 是支持,而不是支配; 是慰问,而不是质问; 是倾诉,而不是控诉; 是难忘,而不是遗忘; 是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代; 是为对方默默祈求, 而不是向对方诸多要求; 可以浪漫,但不要浪费; 可以随时牵手,但不要随便分手。

变了。。

不知道怎么了。。
感觉她今天变了哦!!
好事好事。。
哈哈

也不懂怎么的,就多了个女儿。。

哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈

Sunday, May 3, 2009

wah, proud!











Friday, May 1, 2009

爱一人..

如果你不爱一个人,
请放手.
好让别人有机会爱她.
如果你爱的人放弃了你,
请放开自己,
好让自己有机会爱别人.
有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,
有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.
人生中有许多种 .
但别让自己为一种伤害.
有些缘分是注定要失去的,
有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,
爱一个人不一定要拥有,
但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.
男人哭了是因为他真的爱了.
女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

如果真诚是一种伤害,
我选择谎言;
如果谎言一种伤害,
我选择沉默;
如果沉默是一种伤害,
我选择离开.

如果失去是苦,
你怕不怕付出 ,
如果迷乱是苦,
你会不会选择结束,
如果追求是苦,
你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,
如果分离是苦,
你要向谁倾诉,
好多事情都是后来才看清楚,
好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!


***爱&缘分***
1.她無聊時陪她〃
2.她難過時安慰她〃
3.男生要主動點〃
4.多約女友出去〃
5.不能讓女友主動約〃
6.讓她每天都開心愉快〃
7.要好好對待女友〃
8.順從女友的意〃
9.不要讓她傷心難過〃
10.當她被欺負要立刻去保護她〃
11.不要隱瞞女友事情〃
12.不能背叛女友〃

Monday, April 20, 2009







这次我最后一次穿球衣。。
伤心。。
可怜的学校。。
永远的11号。。
哇哈哈!!!

Thursday, April 16, 2009

对你的十句话

第一句  
如果我们之间有1000步的距离    
你只要跨出第1步    
我就会朝你的方向走其余的999步    

第二句    
通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人    
才是真正爱你的人    

第三句    
付出真心 
才会得到真心    
却也可能伤得彻底    
保持距离 
就能保护自己    
却也注定永远寂寞    

第四句    
有时候 
不是对方不在乎你    
而是你把对方看得太重    

第五句    
朋友就是把你看透了 
还能喜欢你的人    

第六句    
就算是believe 
中间也藏了一个lie    

第七句    
真正的好朋友    
并不是在一起就有聊不完的话题    
而是在一起 
就算不说话    
也不会感到尴尬    

第八句    
没有一百分的另一半    
只有五十分的两个人    

第九句    
为你的难过而快乐的 
是敌人    
为你的快乐而快乐的 
是朋友    
为你的难过而难过的    
就是那些 
该放进心里的人    

第十句    
冷漠 
有时候并不是无情    
只是一种避免被伤害的工具

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

我变了吗?

经过了好多好多事的感觉。。
回到了旧家
用三次练习时间
就要跟我多年的心血比赛。。
靠。。
是压力的咯!!
去年我说过
十九岁的教练,全国冠军
虽然我不在了
她们却没有让我失望哦!
只是差了点!!哈哈
希望老板能给我个机会再次带领她们尽到全国赛哦!!
当然,旧家的的也没有让我失望。。
新生们,你们做的好好哦!!
给自己一个掌声哦!!
丽恋黄,你也好棒哦!!

不久前才开始了我中学后的恋爱
可是谁也没想到
就那么如此的短暂。。
无奈
我不想说那么多了
只想说
朋友们
小小谈恋爱是很辛苦很累的
要迁就
要关心
要体贴
又不能这个那个
晕啦!!
虽然我不舍得
可是我还是选择尊重她哦!
我只希望你开心吧!!

因为事情真的是一个接一个的发生
那个嚣张浩廉很有自信的我不见了
就觉得现在的自己很DOWNhenshi落没目标吧!!

如果你觉得我现在怎样,也能告诉我哦!!